A teacher in New York decided to honor each of her seniors in High School by telling them the difference each of them had made.  She called each student to the front of the class, one at a time.

First, she told each of them how they had made a difference to her, and the class.  Then she presented each of them a blue ribbon imprinted with gold letters, which read, "Who I Am Makes a Difference."

Afterwards, the teacher decided to do a class project, to see what kind of impact recognition would have on a Community.  She gave each of the students three more blue ribbons, and instructed them to go out and spread this acknowledgment ceremony.  Then they were to follow up on the results, see who honored whom, and report back to the class in about a week.

One of the boys in the class went to a junior executive in a nearby company, and honored him for helping him with his career planning.  He gave him a blue ribbon, and put it on his shirt.  Then he gave him two extra ribbons and said, "We're doing a class project on recognition and we'd like for you to go out, find somebody to honor, give them a blue ribbon, then give them the extra blue ribbon so they can acknowledge a third person, to keep this acknowledgment ceremony going.  Then please report back to me and tell me what happened."

Later that day, the junior executive went in to see his boss, who had been noted, by the way, as being kind of a grouchy fellow.  He sat his boss down, and he told him that he deeply admired him for being a creative genious.  

The boss seemed very surprised.  The junior executive asked him if he would accept the gift of the blue ribbon, and would he give him permission to put it on him.  

His surprised boss said, "Well, sure."  The junior executive took the blue ribbon and placed it right on his boss' jacket, above his heart .

As he gave him the last extra ribbon, he said, "Would you take this exra ribbon, and pass it on by honoring somebody else?  The young boy who first gave me the ribbons is doing a project in school, and we want to keep this recognition ceremony going and find out how it affects people."

That night, the boss came home to his 14-year-old son, and sat him down.  He said, "The most incredible thing happened to me today.  I was in my office, and one of the junior executives came in and told me he admired me, and gave me a blue ribbon for being a creative genius.  Imagine!  He thinks I'm a creative genius!  Then he put this blue ribbon that says, "Who I Am Makes a Difference", on my jacket above my heart.  He gave me an extra ribbon, and I thought about you.  I want to honor you.  My days are really hectic and when I come home, I don't pay a lot of attention to you.  

Sometimes I scream at you for not getting good enough grades in school, and for your bedroom being a mess.  But somehow tonight, I just wanted to sit here and, well, just let you know that you do make a difference to me.  Besides your mother, you are the most important person in my life.  You're a great kid, and I love you!

The startled boy started to sob and sob, and he couldn't stop crying.  His whole body shook.  He looked up at his father and said through his tears, "Dad, earlier tonight I sat in my room and wrote a letter to you and Mom, explaining why I had killed myself, and I asked you to forgive me.  I was going to commit suicide tonight after you were asleep.  I just didn't think that you cared at all.  The letter is upstairs.  I don't think I need it after all."  His father walked upstairs and found a heartfelt letter full of anguish and pain.  

The boss went back to work a changed man.  He was no longer a grouch, but made sure to let all of his employees know that they made a difference.

The junior executive helped several other young people with career planning, and never forgot to let them know that they made a difference in his life...one bieng the boss' son.  And the young boy and his classmates learned a valuable lesson, "Who you are DOES make a difference."

Who you are does make a difference.  All of you have made a difference in my life and I felt that I should let you all know that.  I challenge you all to pass this on to one, two or three people to let them know that they make a difference.  God Bless all of you!

Michelle,

What a lovely and heartwarming story. [smiley=heart.gif]

I don't think we realize how we may touch others by a kind word or act. In this case, a father saved his son from suicide by simply acknowledging him.

You and Shane have meant so much to me and Kevin. You were going through followup at Stanford and you and Shane found the time to sit with me through those long surgery days. WOW!! With Jill and you and all the others at Stanford having surgery or followup at that time made me feel as though I had known you all my life. I felt as though I had traveled almost 3,000 miles to be with family. I'll never forget it and how much it meant to me and Kevin.

The entire moyamoya family means a lot to us too. They have all contributed to our knowledge, support, peace of mind and well-being. We are truly blessed to have each other. This is a unique and super family.

This site is a testiment to what one person can do for literally hundreds, if not thousands, of others. DJ has given us all a tremendous and awesome gift.

God bless and hugs to all [smiley=hug.gif]

Lore

Lovely?  Heartwarming?  My gosh, tears are running down my face, and they won't stop.

Lore is right in saying that we are all so blessed to have each other.  And DJ with this site . . . words of gratitude can't possibly express thanks for such a wonderful gift.

Everyone here is a very important part of my life, and I love you all.  We DO make a difference!

[smiley=heart.gif], Jill  

This is beautiful,  I certainly agree with you all.  Tears are also running down my face.  Finding this site has helped me tremendously.  I also want to take the time to thank you all for being there for me and my family while i was going through so much.  When i thought being diagnosed with moya moya was the end of the world; you all made me realized this is not a death sentence, and life do go on. Having said that,  just want to say i appreciate you all and thank you.

Love,
Cheryl

WOW!  What a wonderful and moving story.  Though I, too, have tears, I also have a big smile on my face just wishing that I could hug everyone on this wonderful life-saving website.  Everyone who has written has become special to me and my family.  And the ones we have gotten to know - Jill, Campbell, Tara, DJ - and of course Dr. S, Teresa and all the other Stanford crew - are especially close to my heart.  If it were not for all of you, we would not have our lovely daughter Kate.

Thank you all for being there - you will never know how much of a difference you have made in our lives.  I will cherish each of you always.

Sending all of my love  [smiley=heart.gif] to each of you.

Cass  [smiley=cowboy.gif]

Thank you Michelle for sharing a wonderful story. It is absolutly true and everyone of you from this sight had made a difference in my life and many more. Many people hear about my MM story and they are always sorry and feel bad but I tell them not to be because I am so proud to be apart of this family. No matter what is happening in my life I know I have have friends here who all make a difference in my life! I love you all!

[smiley=heart.gif]Christy