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Feb 19th, 2006 at 12:38pm
 
My Name is Aaron my 10 month old daughter Allyson was diagnosed with Moya Moya about 4 months ago. We just found out this past week that it has spread from her left side to both her right and left now. I am scared to death and I am looking for any help that I can find.
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Reply #1 - Feb 19th, 2006 at 1:07pm
 
Dear Aaron,

Welcome to our family!  I am sorry about your daughter's diagnosis, but very glad you've found your way here!  This is a great place to learn about MM, and there are some wonderful people here, all who have traveled this road in one way or another.

I am the mom of a 19 year old girl who was diagnosed and had two bypass surgeries in May/June 2004.  We consider ourselves very fortunate that our daughter had had "only" two small strokes prior to surgical treatment.

The best thing you can do for Allyson is to read up and educate yourself about this disease.  As you become more familiar, you will understand that this is not a "wait and see" disease.  It is progressive, and ideally surgical treatment is obtained PRIOR to a devastating stroke or hemorrhage.

I don't know Allyson's history or what doctors are recommending for her, and I am not a medical professional.  I want to caution you though, that a "wait an see" attitude from a doctor is usually something to question.    

Unfortunately, the majority of the medical profession is just not well educated about MM.  The wait and see stance seems to be fairly common.  The question you have to ask is, what are they waiting for?  This is a progressive disease that won't get better or improve with medicinal treatment.  The true experts, doctors who see it on a DAILY basis, are few and far between.  The leading specialists are located at Boston Children's (Dr. Michael Scott) and Stanford (Dr. Gary Steinberg).   Dr. Steinberg operates on both children and adults, and Dr. Scott primarily sees pediatric patients.  Both are happy to offer an opinion free of charge.  You might want to seriously consider sending your daughter's test results to one of them for a recommendation.  

I don't want to frighten you, but as a dad, I'm sure you don't want someone who just dabbles with this disease to treat your daughter.  With the lack of MM knowledge amongst the medical profession, it is not unusual for people to have to travel away from home to seek good medical care for this disease.  I've met many people from out-of-state and out of the country who have come here (California) for treatment by Dr. Steinberg at Stanford.  It is commonplace there - they've performed several hundred surgeries (amazing when you consider that MM occurs in 1 in every 2,000,000 people!).  Dr. Scott also treats many patients from all over.

Good luck to you as you start the education process.  You and Allyson will be added to my prayers.  Please don't hesitate to continue asking questions, and I hope you can decide on a plan of action that seems to best suit your precious little girl.

Warmly,
Jill

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Reply #2 - Feb 19th, 2006 at 3:11pm
 
 Welcom...I'm truely sorry your in need of this group but it sure is the best place for you to get what you and your daughter need right now which is information and support from families who've been exactly where you are right now.I know becuase four years ago we were there,my daughter Kathleen was diagnosed exactly four years ago she was almost 5 yrs old.Before we had surgery she suffered several seriouse strokes, but the good news is after the 2 surgeries she has had none, and is doing very well.I agree with everything Jill said the first thing you'll want to do is get as much information you can.Kathleen haqd her surgeries with Dr. Scott at Boston Children's hospital and he was all that everyone ahs said he is a wonderful person and an amazing surgeron,he saved my daughters life.this disease is very scarey but it certainly is treatable.If you have specific questions I can also leave you my direct e-mail and give you my # if you'd rather talk that way(sometimes it's easier than typing it all out.Please know your family is in my prayers and again welcome ot our family here.You'll get some great information ansd wonderful support here.I'de love to hear more about how your daughter's doing....
Mary Grace  mgrace5@nycap.rr.com
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Reply #3 - Feb 19th, 2006 at 4:32pm
 
Hi, Aaron.  I see in your bio that you are from Hagerstown, MD.  I used to live near Fredrick, when I was little.   Now  I'm in Southeastern Pennsylvania.

I was wondering where your daughter was diagnosed.  We have been to John's Hopkins with my daughter before, although only a couple of times.

My daughter, Daphne, is 28 months old.  She suffered from seizures at around 3 months old, and no one was able to figure out why.  When she was 15 months old, Daphne suffered two major strokes, and we learned that she had severe moyamoya disease on both sides.   Fortunately, we were able to get an excellent surgeon to help Daphne (Dr. Steinberg in Stanford, CA), and she has been doing much better.  Her follow up tests about 6 months ago looked excellent, so we are very hopeful that Daphne will not suffer more strokes, and can benefit developmentally from improved blood flow to her brain.   Daphne has a website, if you're interested:  www.daphnestory.com

I would love to know more about your daughter's situation.   I agree with Jill that Moyamoya is not usually a "wait and see" type disease, and I also agree with Jill's recommendation to seek a second opinion from Dr. Steinberg or Dr. Scott.  It seems like you are fortunate that Allyson was diagnosed so early... the sooner she is treated, the better her chances will be.   Most people with Moyamoya who are treated by an experienced surgeon before major damage occurs are able to live normal, full lives.

I know it is scary to think about this disease, and to contemplate neurosurgery, but I think just about anyone on this board who has been through it - either personally, or with their children - will tell you that it is much better to get a diagnosis and to be treated, than to be unaware and run the risk of stroke.

Please feel free to email me if there's anything I can do.  My email is moyer305@comcast.net. 

Jenny

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Reply #4 - Feb 19th, 2006 at 5:43pm
 
Aaron,

Where to start?  I know exactly where you are right now.  My son, Trey has had two strokes the first when he was 7 1/2 months old and the second a week before he was 10 months old.  The first stroke affected the optic nerve in his right eye and the second more severe stroke affected his entire left side (arm, leg, hamstring, heal chord, etc.).  It wasn't until after the second stroke that he was diagnosed.  It is such a scary thing to watch this happen to your baby, you don't know what they are feeling and they can not tell you.

You have found a great place in this website to be.  I don't know where I would be without it.  There are so many people here that know what you are going through and can help.  This is a wonderful place to find out information and to find what the right questions to ask are and sometimes you can get answers to questions you had not even thought of yet.

Everyone that has responded already has been right on with thier advice.  Also, just as Jenny said, if there is a silver lining to the dark cloud that you are under right now it is that Allyson is so young and they really do bounce back so much faster.  Trey is now 2 1/2 and he is a little delayed but you wouldn't know that he has been through what he has to look at him.  He had bilateral brain surgery a week before he turned one and he has great blood flow now.  I don't know which surgery it was, I will need to read the different types--and I need to, so that I will know the correct terms.  But there is light at the end of the tunnel.  The first thing is to find a doctor that is experienced with the disease, I have heard great things about Dr's Stienberg and Scott, we used a sort of local doctor here.  Then surgery is the next step. 

I would be more than happy to talk with you about anything you want to know.  Please feel free to email me or if you want to talk I will be glad to give you my number.  My email address is mea_michell@yahoo.com.

I will keep you in my prayers.

Michell
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