Hi Margaret,

Welcome to our MM family
I’m so sorry to hear about Annamaria’s diagnosis. You’re on the right track by learning all you can about this rare disease. Great start! By arming yourself with knowledge, you can fight for the best approach for your daughter. Everyone I know who has been successfully treated for this disease, had to be aggressive and make things happen to get there. God love ya, it may not be an easy road for you under the circumstances, but I urge you to BE AGGRESSIVE and don’t take their words as truth, and fight them with the facts you're learning.
You stated,
your doctor isn’t sure about the seizures, but I don’t understand what he’s not sure about. The FACTS are, in children, MMD typically presents with symptoms and signs of TIA’s or stroke, (which your daughter has had already) but MMD can also present with seizures, those are the facts, so all the signs are there, what will the diary tell him?? I don’t get it. (??) The facts are, this is a progressive disease and it gets worse over time, so IMO, this is another typical wait & see attitude we see all too often in the medical community, and that approach can possibly end up in a devastating stroke. Knowing that surgical intervention is the ONLY treatment for MMD to avoid another, perhaps severe stroke, my first question would have to be, what are we waiting for?? If you are waiting, then ask them for tests showing you that your daughter is getting a sufficient blood supply to make that call to wait. This is why it’s so important that you have a doctor that’s experienced in treating MMD, because they would know the best approach for your daughter. Perhaps your pediatrician could find you a “neurosurgeon” that has MM experience. With all due respect, this one doesn’t sound like he’s at all experienced enough with MM, the disease.
I’m not sure what to tell you about your options, I can only tell you that you need to fight for your daughter to get the appropriate help, and we’re here to help you in any way we can. You’re not alone.
You both are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mar