What an excellent reply!!! Thank you so much!!!
I'm still getting a feel for the message boards too, so this might take a bit of trial and error.

I'll get the hang of things eventually...
CarasMOM wrote on Jul 20th, 2005 at 2:18pm:Hi Dewski...
...welcome to this site and we're here to answer any questions (big, small, easy, difficult) the best we can as we all been through many variation paths.
I'm sorry to hear that your little girl has had to go through so much. Her picture is cute. My wife and I are going to update Michael's picture in the very near future, with something a bit more square. LOL The message board's kinda sqish the picture a bit.
Quote:As far as "determining which surgery is the best"...varies greatly. In my daughter's case...her dr review the angiogram in depth
An angiogram is a test that Michael has not had yet. I imagine that it is somewhat invasive, so perhaps that is something that Dr. Scott would want to do in Boston as opposed to us having it done here in Syracuse, NY. I am sure he will let us know when he calls.
Quote:...and told us some surgical methods they may do but will decide upon opening her up.
I am not ashamed to say that I find that a bit unnerving. I am sure that there are always decisions that need to be made at the moment of surgery. I guess it's the "unknowing" that makes me uneasy, but in reality, no matter what type of surgery Michael will have to undergo, it will be difficult to see him go through it.
Quote:Removing the bone is replaced right back when surgery is done...in Cara's case..it was a small piece.
We were told that the muscle graft...still connected to her scalp so the arteries are intact was put into the skull attached on the brain...and eventually new arteries will sprout from that little patch....may leave a "bump" on the side of her head........but her thick hair would cover.....as she grows it'll blend in with her head.
Her right side bump is slightly larger than the left side...I was worried if she fell on that bump ...damage would be done....but its just muscle nothing would happen should she get hit there. The burr holes are tiny too (Cara didn't have that) but others can reply to your question.
In Michael's case, he has other things that will no doubt fall into play. He has a lhigh-pressure vp shunt in his head for his hydrocephalus. I guess we aren't as worried about a bump here and there. LOL He is just a "bumpy-headed-kinda-guy". We were much more concerned about him having a piece of his skull
permanently removed and having live brain tissue "open" for the slightest bump to jar. It seems to be that leaving the bone fragment out is much rarer than we initially thought.
Quote:Cara had a stroke right after her right side surgery (1st surgery) on her left side...so she affected all her right side motor skills (arm, hand, facial, leg...etc..including her bubbling personality)...she had continous occupational (0T) and physical (PT) therapies in the five week period before the second surgery...regained a lot back but wasn't until she came out of the second surgery she got her personality back which meant in her case the additional blood flow she got back helped.
Isn't that a wonderful thing! WTG Cara! ;

Michael all ready has many problems with his right side. He had a stroke in-utero and another at a very early age. I'm not even sure if it was ever determined if he was right or left-handed, although he is left-handed now by default more or less. His partial paralysis goes all the way down his right side, including some in his face.
Quote:The future outlook is great for her..as it is for all those who have the surgeries...everyone does vary greatly. I'm not familiar with those who have the surgeries on both sides at the same time but they are under aesthesica longer....varies from case to case but you'll know ahead of time if only one side will be done or both sides at the same time.
From the little that I have been able to put together, Dr. Scott's website seemed to dictate that distance might be a factor as well, in determining whether or not two surgeries can/will be done at the same time. We are approx. a five-six hour drive, (flying low)

, from Boston and I don't believe that flying is an option with Michael's shunt. I guess time will tell in all of this...
Quote:While Cara still has tiny seizures/TIA's...she has gotten SO much better....I don't think she would even be alive today had we not done the surgeries. It's been a year...she's grown few inches and is stronger...doing great but still has more recovering too.
Wow... Now, although that is something that we don't actually envision, the miracle of actually growing more would be amazing. Michael, at 17, has a height and posture of about a 6-7 year old. He is a very short (but adorable) little man. He is about the same in his mental stature.
Quote:...until then...we have each other...to continue to pray that things will only get better.
And we are both OH SO THANKFUL for this message board!
Take care,
-= Dewski =-