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Moyamoya...Oh boya boya!
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Akron, USA, usa, 421, 123, OH, Ohio
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Hi guys,
Well, December has been a difficult month for me. I suffered a TIA leaving my left side numb, a massive flu (still lingering after 2.5 weeks) and two trips to Boston for my Dad. One to say my last goodbye's and the other....for his services.
I heard he was very weak. (end stage heart, kidney and diabetes along with fighting a pneumonia) so I went up quickly on Friday the 8th of December. He was unresponsive with the exception of 15 seconds...he momentarily opened his eyes...they were alive with excitement...and he KNEW I had come to visit....a wisp of a smile...then he returned to unconciousness. Later that day the docs all gathered to consult with the family and they were of the opinion to stop his feeding tubes as he kept pulling them out and apparently they were causing him discomfort. He could not win the battle of an aggressive pneumonia so the goal was to make him comfortable.
On Saturday, I was expecting a worsened state, but to my surprise he was somewhat responsive. He could not open his eyes, but he could squeaze my hand and nod his head or shake side to side for a negative answer. He put both hands on mine and he listened to my words of endearment and courage for the journey he must soon make.
I traved back on Sunday morning.....he passed on Sunday night December 10th.
I returned a few days later for the services and a tribute to a wonderful man that was "my daddy"
I am posting this to share with you, as it is another small blessing of my affliction with Moyamoya.
My MM diagnosis deeply upset my dad, and he was quite worried for me. This enabled us to have deeper conversations over these last few months and share our inner feelings. It brought us all a little closer and made it easier to say "I love you" with every call.
I am happy that he witnessed my successful surgery and I was able to show him that he need not worry about me. He was a gentle giant and I will miss him deeply. He left this life as he lived it..... peacefully and thankful to all around him.
Diane
My Mom passed suddenly in 1991 and it still seems surreal. I was blessed to have them influencing my life.
I suppose they will always be a part of my actions and my character. I hope I will face the challenges with grace and integrity.
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