Sorry I haven't been keeping up with all that has been going on with everyone.
I do have a question for those of you with teenagers with MM. It has been 5 years since Tylers surgery and although he has been doing great I find I have trouble giving him his independence. He is going to be 16 in a week and a half and I think he still has fears of another stroke as well as do I. How do you get past that fear and let them go?
Tyler has about 75% use of his left arm back and blends in with the crowd pretty well. He does cook and clean and all the things all other 16 years olds do, even if I have to get after him about it at time...LOL. However, he is afraid to be home alone for very long. Since I was in college we didn't always have a choice on him being home alone, but I still found myself full of anxiety till I would see that he was ok when I got home. He also would call my cell phone just to check on me and the time I was coming home.
Any advise anyone has on this would be greatly appreciated.
Also, Tyler refuses to go to therapy or do his excercises and his hand is losing ground. Does anyone have ideas on how I can encourage him on this matter also? I realise that he had been in some type of therapy since birth, and was just getting away from it when he had his stroke, so he can very well just be tired of it and need a break, but I hate to see him lose use of his hand now.
Now for a lighter update about the rest of life...lol
I graduated in May, and although I was unable to complete the teaching certification program, I am still following my dreams of becoming a teacher, just using the backdoor
My daughter just got married a few weeks ago and Tyler was our videographer. He did an excellent job and with practice may be able to do it professionaly someday, if he so chooses.