Lore
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My brother Kevin (Cubbie) has Moyamoya
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Hi Christie,
I'm glad to hear Amy has made progress and is walking and talking. Amy has been through a lot and it will take time and Amy will require rehab.
I'm reliving my brother's speech and mind issues he experienced after his hemorrhage and trying to determine if his issues are similar to Amy's.
When my brother had his hemorrhage, he could not speak and had no abstract thinking ability. When a person doesn't have abstract thinking ability, nothing makes sense to them. They can't read a book, watch TV or understand a conversation because nothing makes sense. With therapy and time, my brother regained his abstract thinking ability. I don't know if Amy is experieincing the same thing as my brother, meaning no abstract thinking ability, but if she is, it will get better with therapy.
If Amy's mind is affected by a stroke, it depends on the area of the brain that is affected and to what degree. Regardless, therapy will help Amy improve.
Even after my brother could speak, he still didn't know what was going on. He spent several months, several times a week, with a stroke and speech pathologist who got him on track to make sense of words and then simple sentences and I helped him with homework in the evenings to reinforce what he had learned in therapy that day.
Also, I had my brother watch TV shows like Jeopardy, Wheel of Fortune and Who Wants to be a Millionaire. These shows required him to concentrate and learn spelling, and connections to things he could recall or had knowledge of prior to his hemorrhage. It really helped with getting him to understand and put the pieces together. He has regained his abstract thinking ability.
I do know that everyone is different and no two people, even having a stroke or hemorrhage, will necessarily experience the exact same issues or outcome because it depends on a number of different factors such as the part of the brain that is affected and to what degree.
I have to believe that therapy will help Amy. Therapy is the repetition of words and sentences and responses and actions over and over again. It is relearning and it becomes hibitual over time. Also, most stroke victims do improve over time. Therapy requires patience and work but in my brother's case, it certainly paid off in the end.
At one point, my brother not only didn't know who I was, he didn't know his lifelong friend. I had to jog is mind by telling him how he knew me and his friend. I showed him a lot of pictures and explained who the people where and where we were when the picture was taken. Plus, I would say our names over and over and finally, out of the blue, he said my name and his lifeling friends name. That was the beginning of continual improvement.
If I asked him to give me something such as his wallet, he had no idea what I was asking him for. I showed him his wallet and spoke the word and did the same thing over and over again until he finally got it. I also showed him what was in his wallet. I then took him to the store and had him buy food and purchase it because he didn't know what money was or how it worked. It took time and patience but only about 3 months of constant teaching, showing and doing. I saw a great improvement in that time and by six months, he was doing very well. Today, one would be hard pressed to know he had ever had such issues.
I hope this helps to ease your mind to some degree. I believe once Amy gets into a therapy program, she will improve.
I too was sad when I saw my brother for the first time after he hemorrhaged. It was devastating and I thought he would never speak again or ever know me again. At the time, it was hard for me to even imagine therapy would help my brother but in retrospect, it was everything to my brother improving.
Christie, I know how hard this is for you and your family but I also know you are all very loving and supportive. All that love and support, along with therapy, will help Amy improve.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong and keep the faith and know we are here for you all.
Hugs,
Lore
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