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Our daughter, Tara, lives with MM
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San Jose, USA, usa, 24, 158, CA, California
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Greetings Ashley,
I'll add my welcome to the others, and Mary Grace and Mar have given you some excellent advice. Waiting and watching is definitely not a good option!
My daughter was diagnosed with MM at age 17. She had her surgeries 2 weeks after her diagnosis and, at age 22, is doing very well now. Your question about learning disabilities hit home with me. It wasn't until my daughter had an extensive neuropsychology test at age 20 that we learned she had very compromised reading comprehension (1% level). She had had strong patterns of doing poorly on tests ever since 4th grade, but we and her teachers were never able to put our fingers on a cause. She did very well in school - was attentive, worked hard, got along well with others, etc., and there were never any other red flags. We assumed it was a testing anxiety or something minor. She was able to compensate somehow, and came out of high school with a 3.5 GPA. With the neuropsychology testing, it all finally made sense, though.
Present day, and she (Tara) is in her 5th year of college. She still has significant struggles, but knows that she needs to read out loud to her self to retain information, and school gives her tape recorded tests with extra time for them. Hopefully she'll get through college.
Of course, every patient is different, and your daughter may have other needs. One of the difficult things I've found (in my daughter's case) is that people don't believe she has any disabilities. They're floored when they learn she's had strokes. If you were to look at her, talk with her, see what she can do physically now (mainly open water swimming events), you wouldn't believe it, either. These kinds of disabilities often aren't easily apparent, so we're finding that she has to continually educate people regarding her limitations. Not fun for a person her age!
Anyway, you've come to a good place to continue your education process. There are some wonderful people here who will be happy to answer whatever questions you have (and trust me, you'll have a million of them!). Don't hesitate to ask anything that comes to mind, and to lean on those who have walked in similar shoes for support.
Warmly, Jill
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