hi,
     well i finally talked to them. i almost feel out in the floor laughing at this woman when she told me the complaint, you will not believe this  you alresdy know how how financially hard it is well me and the kids dont do with out but we dont have the best of every thing anyway i sent anote to school at the begining of the week and asked if they would please use the bibs i send cause the kids were {savannah and jake} coming home really dirty and wet from drooling the teachers and i already dont get along and so the turn arond and called ss and said that i groomed my children poorly i died laughing i just told her they might not be the best clothes in the world cause we have to yard sale with 4 kids but if you just take a good smell youll find that they are clean, she said{socail worker} she went to school and didnt see were they looked poorly groomed . i told her if she wanted to take us shopping to buy new clothes that we were all for it but she said no that was not nessary. so after i talked to her i called my lawyer he said this was even better that this proves that they are looking for just anything to harrasse me with. and i want you guys to know that after finding this web site it has gave me more confidence in my self so i also went to my local news paper to let the public be aware of what is happening in the system and that my children have moyamoya they were very glad to hear my story i want to thank you all for the new found courage and strength to stand up to these people before i was afaid because no one heard of moya moya and i didnt think anyone would listen but after reading all the stories you guys have posted  this is were i got my idea to fight back so that is what i am going to do every one in North Carolina will know about moyamoya by the time i am done. Thank each and every one of you we love you guys very much  and i hope we are doing the right thing please feel free if you think i am wrong and if you have any suggestions GOD BLESS.

Sandy,

I have to agree with Mary Grace,

You Go Girl!

Hang in there, you're doing a great job!

Good for you, Sandy----I know a little bit about school law----if you would like me to compose a letter to your local Board of Education------a strongly worded, but polite letter----I would be happy to do so.  You just e-mail me with exactly what you would like to say to the Board and I will put it in the appropriate "legalese".  If you can get me an e-mail address for the Board of Ed and for your local newspaper---------so much the better and I will copy the local paper on the letter as well....whatever I can do, I am here to help you and your children.....I do alot of pro bono work....so, it's no problem....and as you all can probably see, I like to write.......and quote scripture, which I hope you are all not sick of me doing.......The Lord said to [Samuel]"....I do not judge as people judge.  T hey look at the outward appearance, but I look at the heart." 1 Samuel 16:7 (TEV).....I am so proud of you, girl. Love and blessings to you and your dear children, Pat