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Our daughter, Tara, lives with MM
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San Jose, USA, usa, 24, 158, CA, California
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Dear moyamom,
Welcome to our family! I am sorry about your son's diagnosis, but very glad you've found your way here! This is a great place to learn about MM, and there are some wonderful people here, all who have traveled this road in one way or another.
I am the mom of an 18 year old girl who was diagnosed and had two bypass surgeries in May 2004. We consider ourselves very fortunate that our daughter had "only" had two small strokes prior to surgical treatment.
The best thing you can do for your son is to read up and educate yourself about this disease. As you become more familiar, you will understand that this is not a "wait and see" disease. It is progressive, and ideally surgical treatment is obtained PRIOR to a devastating stroke or hemorrhage.
I don't know your son's history, and I am not a medical professional. However, to hear a physician say that symptoms don't warrant surgery is something I don't understand at all. Is the blood flow to your son's brain less than it should be? Symptoms or not, if that is the case, he should be proceeding with treatment, BEFORE something terrible happens.
Unfortunately, the majority of the medical profession is just not well educated about MM. The wait and see stance seems to be fairly common. The question you have to ask is, what are they waiting for? This is a progressive disease that won't get better or improve with medicinal treatment. The true experts, doctors who see it on a DAILY basis, are few and far between. The leading specialists are located at Stanford (Dr. Gary Steinberg) and Boston Children's (Dr. Michael Scott). Dr. Steinberg operates on both children and adults, and Dr. Scott primarily sees pediatric patients. Both are happy to offer an opinion free of charge. You might want to seriously consider sending your son's test results to one of them for a recommendation.
In the meantime, some key questions to ask your son's current doctor: How many MM patients has he/she seen? How many MM surgeries has he/she performed? How did he/she conclude that the EMS surgery was the best for your son?
I don't want to frighten you, but as a mom, I'm sure you don't want someone who just dabbles with this disease to treat your son. With the lack of MM knowledge amongst the medical profession, it is not unusual for people to have to travel away from home to seek good medical care. I've met many people from out-of-state and out of the country who have come here (California) for treatment by Dr. Steinberg at Stanford. It is commonplace there - they've performed several hundred surgeries (amazing when you consider that MM occurs in 1 in every 2,000,000 people!).
Good luck to you as you start the education process. You and your son will be added to my prayers. Please don't hesitate to continue asking questions, and I hope you can decide on a plan of action that seems to best suit your son.
Warmly, Jill
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