Hi Lena,
Here are the different "stages" of moyamoya, according to the American Society of Neuroradiology.
ICA Stage Angiographic Findings
I Narrowing of the carotid bifurcation
II Dilatation of the ACA and MCA with appearance of ICA
moyamoya
III Partial disappearance of the ACA and MCA with
intensitication of ICA moyamoya
IV Advanced stenoocclusive changes in the ICA
(ACA and MCA are traced very dimly or in a
completely different shape) with small amount of
ICA moyamoya
V Absence of the ACA and MCA with frther reduction
of ICA moyamoya
VI Blood supply only from the external carotid artery
with almost complete disappearance of ICA
moyamoya
Note: ICA, ACA, MCA indicate internal carotid, anterior and middle cerebral arteries, respectively; ICA moyamoya, moyamoya vessels at or around the terminal part of the ICA
*Adapted from Suzuki et al
PCA Stage Angiographic Findings
1. No occlusive changes in the PCA
2. Stenosis in the PCA with or without slightly developed
PCA moyamoya
3. Severe stenosis or virtually complte occlusion of the
PCA with well-developed PCA moyamoya
4. Occlusion of the PCA with decreased PCA moyamoya
Note: PCA indicates posterior cerebral artery; PCA moyamoya, moyamoya vessels from the the PCA.
Now, I'm just kind of talking off the top of my head about this so don't hold me to it, but I'm thinking maybe many of us aren't told what "stage" we have for a couple of reasons. They (radiologists/doctors etc.) probably think we wouldn't completely understand what they are talking about, so why bother.

Or, again this is me just talking out loud, these moyamoya stages aren't significantly important and doctors don't want to scare us with "stage" numbers.

Maybe, unlike something like the stages of cancer, it doesn't mean it isn't treatable. To me, the stages represent the progression of the MM in each individual. Or, finally, I could be all wrong about all of this!
Have they talked about surgery yet on your mom?
Hang in there Lena and give my well wishes to your mom.

Lisa