Hi Kim, Welcome to our MM family.

I’m sorry to hear your son was diagnosed with MM, but thank God it was an incidental finding, many are not as fortunate and are diagnosed after progression and a stroke. Please don’t feel like you sound like anything other than a concerned, loving mom. We all understand your fears with this rare disease; we all have been down that same road one way or another.
I have to start by saying, a wait and see approach is risky, IMO. I don’t know your son’s specifics; I’m simply saying that this disease is progressive and delays in diagnoses/treatment are the particular pitfalls with MMD. I do NOT understand the wait and see approach with monitoring MM. What does monitoring and waiting do?? It allows the disease to progress and puts a patient at higher risk for a stroke. Unfortunately surgery is the only treatment for MMD. Medications/aspirin are helpful, but NO medications prevent the arterial narrowing process from progressing or keeps the moyamoya vessels from developing, and there lies the danger.
All MM cases are different because of each individual’s personal factors. The rate of progression varies from patient to patient, and warning signs are different for everyone, but to answer your question, can anything happen without any warning signs, yes it can. My niece simply said she could not hold a pen one day; no other signs, we never suspected a stroke and days later she had 4 devastating strokes that put her in a coma. I don’t want to frighten you; I’m simply saying that this disease can be silent and suddenly strike with mild or no symptoms as well as with stroke like symptoms. With children it’s hard to see every sign. I agree with the feeling it’s like living with a time bomb, because knowing MM progresses and that you can have a stroke at any time with this disease, that’s exactly like a time bomb. Is your son old enough to know and tell you about the many different warning signs possible?
IMO, the safest thing you can do is get a second opinion from a MM specialist. One who deals with this disease on a daily basis. If a MM expert says it’s safe to wait, then and only then would I wait while this disease progressed. We have two MM experts here in the USA that deals with this disease on a daily basis. If you mail either one of them a copy of your son's films, they will give you their expert opinion.
As far as travel and high altitudes, I would think that a doctor that’s experienced with MM, and knows your son’s specifics could best answer that. Again, each case is different with MM. No two cases are alike, so it’s hard to speculate.
Please don’t feel like you bombarded us at all. That’s what we’re here for, to help and support you in any way we can. There are wonderful people here, we’re like family. Please feel free to ask any question, no question is too small or to just vent.
You, your son and family are in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless,
Mar