Lore
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My brother Kevin (Cubbie) has Moyamoya
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Delaware, USA, usa, 419, 133, OH, Ohio
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Welcome Mac and Cindy,
Mac, I'm sorry to hear about Pam and my thoughts and prayers are with you all. As Mar mentioned, I wish I had the words to comfort you all. But know, you are not alone, and many have walked this same path.
Cindy, I'm sorry to hear about your brother at such a young age. I can relate well as I have taken care of my brother for the past seven years as a result of moyamoya and the lack of knowledge in the medical community about the disease and my brother ignoring some early signs.
At the age of 43, my brother had a stroke and a dissected right upper internal carotid artery. It was devastating and if that wasn't enough, he went almost 4 years mis diagnosed. As I watched him getting progressively worse, I vowed I would get to the bottom of the problem. To make a long story short, I insisted on an angiogram and the nightmare began.
The doctors had no idea what they were seeing, meaning the collateral vessels that form the "puff of smoke", known as moyamoya. The collateral vessels form in an effort to supply needed blood and oxygen to the brain due to the carotid arteries narrowing and closing. The collateral vessels are very weak and can't do the job. Because they are weak, they can cause a bleed in the brain. All the while the carotid arteries are blocked. Some are blocked more than others depending on when the disease is caught. That's why some have surgery on one side and not the other, or have both sides done within weeks of each other.
Once I got the diagnosis of moyamoya, I began to call every institution you can imagine and you can only imagine the response I got. Most had no idea what I was talking about. They had never heard of moyamoya. Then, I found this site. Thank God for DJ! I then found Dr. Steinberg at Stanford and his nurse Teresa who decided to take on my brother, given the horrific shape he was in at the time. I knew this was my brother's only chance at life. It was truly a life saving ordeal. In May of 2005, my brother had two successful STA-MCA's by Dr. Steinberg at Stanford and today can speak and think. I never thought my brother would ever speak again or know who I was or anything else for that matter. My point being, that it is only by the grace of God and the hands of an experienced, knowledgeable and skilled neurosurgeon, and moyamoya team, that my brother is alive today and can speak and think. He actually had had two strokes and a hemorrhage from the brain. It is truly a miracle my brother is alive today. I put him in a very rigorous rehab program after his surgeries which helped to jog his mind and to gain his abstract thinking ability.
My advice is the same as Mar's. It is important to become knowledgeable about the disease and get to an experienced moyamoya doctor. I found Stanford's website on moyamoya extremely helpful to me in educating myself about the surgical treatment of the disease and the tell tale signs of the disease.
In retrospect, my brother had signs of moyamoya that he ignored simply because the symptoms went away. For instance, numbing and tingling in his extremities and then TIA's which are mini strokes. Had I known that at the time, I would have insisted he seek medical treatment immediately.
The one thing I find odd about this disease, is it can strike a very young baby but may not strike an adult until they are in their 30's 40's or 50's.
I too am like Mar in that if I can save one person from the trauma, grief and devastation associated with this disease, that's my mission.
Because my brother went misdiagnosed for so long, I am his durable power of attorney. He lives on his own now, but that only happened within the past year. I still continue to handle his affairs because he is vulnerable to being taken advantage of by others. He certainly has come a long way but it has been a long, hard and painful journey. All of this may very well have been avoided had my brother heeded the signs and the medical community take note of this disease and become knowledgeable about the disease.
The one thing that keeps me going is the moyamoya family. They are great! I could not do this daily without them. Their support, love, caring and advice are immeasurable and I am eternally grateful to have such a family.
I hope by sharing my brother's story, you will know you are not alone and is of some help for you moving forward and next steps.
Please know we are here for you and please ask any questions.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless,
Lore
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