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NEED TO VENT!!!
Jul 21st, 2011 at 11:33pm
 
I am so angry, upset and frustrated! Just need to vent to someone who may understand what my son is going through. Christopher had bilateral pial synangiosis done on May 31st in Boston. He suffered 6 strokes before the surgery and one 2 days after surgery. Considering this, things went pretty well....till we came home to Philadelphia.

The left side incision never healed properly. We have been to Children's Hosp in Phila almost every weekend since with problems. We even went back to Boston a couple of weeks ago. He developed a pseudomeningecele (probably not spelled correctly). This is an abnormal collection of fluid. Right in the middle of the incision, there was a lot of swelling and redness, then it started to drain. The 2nd time we went to CHOP, they actually flew us to Boston and by the time we got there, the fluid stopped draining out. We stayed for a couple days and no more leakage. MRI, cat scan and blood work shoed no signs of infection or other problems.

Get back home to Phila and the leaking began again, 2 weeks ago I looked at my son's head and there was a small hole where the swelling used to be! You could actually see the bone in his head! Went back to CHOP and they told us he had a superficial skin infection and they needed to reopen incision, clean it and stitch it back up. This procedure was done last Monday and Chris was discharged last Wednesday. This past Sunday we were back in the er at CHOP with more leakage from the same spot. They were not concerned with what was leaking out, we were told since it wasn't clear (spinal fluid) it was probably pus. They took the stitches out on Wednesday and guess what....it is still seeping! There is a big scab where the hole was and it looks like there is still a hole there which I will find out when the ret of the scab comes off.

Dr. Smith and Dr. Scott are in Switzerland at a Moyamoya convention. I have been in contact with them through email and it looks like we will be going back to Boston at the end of next week when Dr. Smith returns. I needs concrete answers as to what is going on and my son's head needs to be fixed! He is going through so much because he does not understand, he is nonverbal has down syndrome and autism, and needs sedation for every little procedure cause he won't stay still!

I'm sorry this is so long, but I thought maybe someone else out there has experienced something similar to this. I just don't know what to do!  Cry
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Re: NEED TO VENT!!!
Reply #1 - Jul 22nd, 2011 at 8:07am
 
I have not experienced this but I wanted to say that I am so sorry your son is having to go through this.  Seems the doctors could find someway to get it to heal up or at least get you some answers.  Hope things are looking up soon.  Vent anytime you need to.
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Reply #2 - Jul 22nd, 2011 at 11:10am
 
gosh I'm so so sorry to hear your son's having these complications. I know how hard it is when they just don't unerstand what's going on and why. Kathleen is not good with any "procedure" either she will usually get sedated befreo there's any needles. I'm glad you've been able to contact Dr. Scott and Smith. I'm glad you came ehre to vent and I hope it helps to know that we're here for you any time even if it's just to vent. I hope you can feel our prayers and ((((WARM HUGS)))). Keep us posted... so sorry...
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Reply #3 - Jul 22nd, 2011 at 12:26pm
 
I am so sorry you are having to experience this. I will add an extra special prayer for your Christopher.

Please take our warm prayers and thaughts to lift you up and give you strength. Thank you for venting, i know it helps to talk to others who may have experenced somethings symilar, to know you are not alone.

Please keep us posted,
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Reply #4 - Jul 22nd, 2011 at 3:27pm
 
Karen -

Vent away!  I'm so sorry you and Christopher (and your whole family for that matter) have to go through this.  I don't even know what to suggest.  I would take pictures...honestly, at least on a daily basis, to show what his head looks like - in case things look different, don't behave the same way, once you see Dr. Scott and Dr. Smith.  What about consulting Dr. Steinberg?  I know he's across the country - but maybe he can help??

Just a suggestion....My thoughts are with you and Christopher.

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Reply #5 - Jul 22nd, 2011 at 3:32pm
 
One other thought - I know you are hesitant to take Chris to a doc that's not specifically pediatric - but have you tried any other hospital?  Jefferson?  St. Christopher's (Einstein network of hospitals -their pediatric hospital)....
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Reply #6 - Jul 22nd, 2011 at 6:22pm
 
Thank you all for your concern, well wishes, prayers and hugs!  I am disgusted with it all, but it is my son going through all the procedures and I feel so bad for him. I do appreciate you all "listening" to me, it does help!

I love the drs. in Boston and they have been fantastic, but now I'm wondering if something went wrong during surgery that wasn't noticed. It's just strange that all tests are coming up fine, but he continues to have the same problem!

I am looking into other drs. in my area for Chris. All of his other drs. are at CHOP and we have no problem with them, it's just the neuro docs that can't seem to get this right!

And, I have been taking pictures of his head....a lot! I have sent most of them to Boston, but I understand it is hard to diagnosis something from a picture. Hopefully soon we can find out exactly what is going on. Christopher has been such a trooper through everything. He does freak out when they have to put an iv in and he always requires sedation for every little thing, but when it is over, he is just fine!
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Reply #7 - Jul 26th, 2011 at 1:14pm
 
Any news? How's your son doing?
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Reply #8 - Jul 26th, 2011 at 10:54pm
 
Absolutely VENT, it does help to get it out.  I'm so sorry you and your family are having so many problems.  I have two children with Downs and one has moyamoya.  Successful surgery last year.  My son is also pretty much non verbal and it is extremely difficult to know how he feels and what he is going through.  I totally feel your pain.  Hang in there, you have to keep strong to fight for your son.  I know it can be draining but you and your family are all he has.  He is very lucky to have such a caring Mom.  I wish you all the best.  Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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Reply #9 - Jul 27th, 2011 at 7:35pm
 
Thanks Corinne, it is so hard to have a child with DS going through this (I think), my son has been through so much since the day he was born and this is just devastating! Being nonverbal makes it worse, I can never tell what is going on with him and we are at the drs a lot just to be sure. He also has a very high tolerance for pain, which is good in a way, but...
Having 1 child with DS is hard, can't imagine 2, God bless you! My son is a handfull! lol  Hope everything is going well with your children.


MaryGrace,

So far, so good. It has not leaked anymore and looks like it is drying up. We are not going back to Boston yet. I have sent them a recent pic and waiting to hear what they think. I am in the process of trying to find someone else in neurology/neurosurgery to have follow up visits with outside of CHOP. Not having any luck yet. We will be going back to Boston for his 6 month check up and MRI and then again for the 1st year appt. Hopefully, we will not have to go back more than that.

How is Kathleen doing?
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Reply #10 - Jul 29th, 2011 at 8:29am
 
Karen, I'm glad things look a little better. I hope it fully resolves wiht out further medical intervention. It's so hard on our kids (My daughter is 14 and also has down syndrome). The communicatin difficulties really make diagnosis much more difficult. Keep us posted...
Kathleen is doing well... I see so many improvements from ehr energy to the (lack of) belly pain. I ahve seen the pain come back here and there and I'm assuming she got some gluten hidden somewhere. It's really made me look at what we eat in a different way. I have to read every label of food that I give her. So far if the label is more than a handfull of ingredients I put it back on the shelf. There is so much uneeded CRAP in our food. Kathleen can have Fritos corn chips...so I just happened to look at a store brand corn chip and compare the labels. Fritos had 3 natural ingredients, the store brand had about a paragraph full of stuff I couldn't even pronounce. Needless to say I bought the Fritos.
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Reply #11 - Jul 29th, 2011 at 11:53pm
 
I know MaryGrace. It is still hard for me to shop for Chris. Way to much info to remember. Chris loves his snacks more than anything. I stick with chex cereal, which he eats a lot and dry (no milk), also utz potato chips and cheese curls. And Ore Ida french fries, crinkle cut, are gluten free along with Glutino pizza. I can find all these in our regular food markets such as Shop Rite and Acme.

You also have to watch when cooking food for her. You need to use separate utensils, pots, pans because of cross contamination. It sound like Kathleen is one that may get sick very easily. Chris is not this way and sometimes we are lax about what we give him.
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