We are all praying for Kelsey-----keep us posted on the test results.....PatM

Kelsey was a trooper last night.  They took 2 rounds of pictures, lasted about 10 minutes.  Before we went in though, she started to cry and said she was really scared.  The noise of the machine is hard to deal with, especially for a child.
Can anyone tell me how they helped other sibling deal with everything that's happening?  My oldest is 14 and she is a terrible worrier, and terrified that she'll lose her sister.   I told her that we have decisions to make, and no matter what, we have to stay strong and help Kelsey thru all of this.  I'm doing my best to get all the infomation I can and explain it to my kids.  Any other advice?
Thanks, love and prayers,
Colleen

Hi Colleen!

Louise who has mm is our youngest child and when she had her surgery her sister was 14 and her brother was 16. They were both very worried about their "babysister" and I think thats very normal, also I think you have to treat every child as an individual when you´re going thru something like this. But you do have to stay strong and confident for your children and carry their burden. Let your worries come out at night or when your kids are not around. Maybe you need a proffessional to talk to about this, I did and it helped a lot. Information is a good thing perhaps from another adult like a nurse, a councelor (spelling?)or doctor and I think they might need a meeting without the rest of the family so that they can ask all the"scary questions".
Also tell them it´s OK to have fun and not worry at times, hanging around with their friends and for a short moment forget that their babysister is sick if you understand what I mean.
I assure you that when the surgery is over and Kelsey is getting better you get used to the "new" life somehow and learn to appreciate it like you never thought you would.
Kelsey is going to be fine, I just know it and I wish you believe that for yourself and your family.

Lots of love and prayers.

Annica (and Louise)