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Really confused, please give our family some input
May 30th, 2012 at 11:23am
 
Hello everyone, my fiance and i just found out that it is likely that he has moyamoya. He had multiple MRI's and an angiogram confirmed that he has one completely blocked vessel and another one that is 90% blocked. My questions are.

Is this genetic?? We already have a 2 year old daughter, should she be tested or wait and see if she shows symptoms as she gets older? Also should we not have any more children due to the risk of them possibly getting this disease?

Also, what can we expect if they want to do surgery, (which im almost positive they will) Is the procedure very risky? Does the procedure have a good chance of fixing things? and how long from now until we can expect to be getting the surgery? He hasn't had any strokes yet, so i would obviously want the surgery done before anything like that happens!

As for my fiance, We are supposed to be getting married in only one month Sad Is it possible for him to be feeling ok for the day or will be have to postpone... Also do people with MM have a normal life expectancy and things like that if surgery cures the vessels?? ( or veins, arteries ) Thank you so much for all of your help and answers ahead of time!
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Reply #1 - May 30th, 2012 at 2:09pm
 
Hi there.  I myself found out not too long ago that I have the disease and have been curious about the same things.  I have a 6 year old son who seems to have Aspergers Syndrome (one of the Autism Spectrum Disorders..and I say seems to because he hasn't been offically diagnosed yet.  We have an appointment this summer with a specialist for him.)  But honestly, I am a bit curious if it is somehow related.  I go back to my doctor next week and I am going to ask her if it could be possible.  From what I have researched, they haven't found anything that points to it being genetic, but they also don't know much about the disease in general, so who knows.

I've been told to hold off on kids, but not because of the possibility of passing the disease down to them.  It's because of the crappy part of being the girl and the one who has to carry the baby and the things it does to your body.  They are afraid that it would alter my blood pressure too much, etc.  It seems that you probably just need to have a good talk with his doctor. 

I cannot say anything to the surgeries.  I'm still waiting to find out about that myself.  I live in NJ and my doctor was honest enough to tell me not to go to anyone here so I have to wait and go to someone in PA.  But I have been fortunate enough to not have a stroke or anything yet either.

Good luck with the pending nuptuals!  I was told to go on and be extremely normal!  From the sounds of everyone else on here, it sounds like that is the key!   Smiley  Do everything as you normally would.
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Reply #2 - May 30th, 2012 at 2:41pm
 
I know you must have a lot of questions and I'm sure you are feeling very overwhelmed.  My best advise is make sure you have a doctor that is very experienced with Moyamoya.  Next do a lot of reading.  There is a lot of good information and advice on this website. 

As far as it being genetic, I think it is safe to say sometimes it is and sometimes it isn't.  There are studies being don on that very subject.  The guest speaker for our Moyamoya get together in Kansas City next month is doing a study at Univ. of Texas.  I am anxious to see what they have found.

Surgery...there are several different kinds.  Your husbands surgeon will have to determine which kind is best for him.  Again there is a lot of good information on this site...thanks to DJ.  Every one's recovery time is different.  My daughter had hers during Christmas break in her freshman year of high school.  She went right back to school when break was over.  Looking back she should have taken a little more time to heal but she did well.  she still has headaches...which is how we found her moyamoya.  She hasn't had a stroke wither.  I'm glad she had the surgery before she had one.

As for being ready for the wedding, well there is just no way to predict.  Personally, unless your doctor tells you otherwise, I would go on with life as usual.  I don't think you can live waiting for the shoe to drop.  Drink lots of water, don't over do it and just do what your doctor says.

As for living a normal life, there are things that you might have to give up...SCUBA, skydiving, etc.  but my daughters life is pretty darn normal.

Good luck and if you have questions just ask.

Donna
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Re: Really confused, please give our family some input
Reply #3 - May 30th, 2012 at 3:56pm
 
MM Fiance,
Welcome to the family. I have to hand it ot Donna; I could have not put it better myself. Don't wait for the wedding.
Good luck and keep us posted!
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Reply #4 - May 30th, 2012 at 5:32pm
 
Thank-you all so much for all the posts! It really gives me hope that we can still have our normal family back Smiley We live in Wisconsin, so their are no surgeons in our area that have experience with MoyaMoya. We are waiting to hear back from our Nurologist about scheduling an appt either at the University of Minnesota with Dr. Nussbaum sp? or in Rochester with Dr. Meyer. I've read up on both and both surgeons seem to have a good understanding of MoyaMoya and are very succesfull with their surgeries, which is reassuring! I'm hoping we can meet with one of the surgeons as soon as possible and hopefully get the surgery done before the wedding, so he can have time to heal!

One other question I have is, being that he has two seperate vessels that are clogged. Both in the back of his head, but one on each side. Will they perfrom the surgery on both vessels at the same time, or is it more likely that they will do two seperate surgeries?
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Reply #5 - May 30th, 2012 at 7:38pm
 
I live in Wisconsin and have had surgeries on both sides.  I live in Waukesha which is about 30 minutes from Milwaukee.  My surgeon was Dr. Kenneth Reichert; he has 2 offices in Waukesha or Oconomowoc.

Feel free to contact me.
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Reply #6 - May 30th, 2012 at 7:58pm
 
MM mom, i sent you a personal message about some questions I have for you, thanks in advance!
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Reply #7 - May 31st, 2012 at 7:40am
 
I am from Minnesota and I had my surgerys done by Dr. Meyer. He is amazing!!!!!! He was polite and answered all the questions. Also he was able to put it into words we could understand. Like I hade no clue what superfucial tempiorla artery was. Good luck with your path. Please keep us posted.
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Reply #8 - May 31st, 2012 at 8:26pm
 
We just got the call saying that his appointment will be this coming Wednesday, in Rochester. We will be meeting with the top nurologist their and he will let us know for sure if it is moyamoya. I'm assuming we will be going through a bunch of testing there and hopefully surgery will be scheduled for next week as well. As for now we are planning to keep our wedding date, inless the surgery gets scheduled for a later time (too close to the wedding) or if the doc says otherwise. Pray for quick surgery, quick recovery, and hopefully only one surgery at this point!
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Reply #9 - Jun 1st, 2012 at 4:01pm
 
I only had one test after the inital meeting. It was very unplesent but it showed how well my blood was flowing under a stressed condition. Dr. Meyer then was albe to let my family and I know what my surgery option were. I had to have the STA-MCA and and EMS just on one side.
Stay strong,
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Reply #10 - Jun 6th, 2012 at 10:25pm
 
Wow, I didnt realize there were so many people with MM so close to me! We are in Rockford, IL. My son was diagnosed with MM at 18 months old and had his surgery in Boston at 2 years old. He is going to be 4 this summer and doing great!!!
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Reply #11 - Jun 8th, 2012 at 6:10pm
 
Our son had his surgery at Milwaukee's Children's Hospital by Dr. Sean Lew.  We live in Appleton.   He has done dozens of these surgeries.
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